How to stop your dog begging for food at the table, by expert trainer Ben Randall

Dogs begging for food around mealtimes can be adorable up to a point — but what happens when the charm wears off? Ben Randall explains how to stop your dog begging for food at the table.

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Whenever the subject of greedy dogs comes up, everybody always thinks one thing: it must be a labrador. And while I don’t want to generalise, or tar all labs with the same brush, a reader emailed me this week via paws-for-thought@futurenet.com to ask for advice about an insatiable dog that won’t stop begging for food. And no prizes for guessing what type of dog it is.

Dear Ben, I’m wondering if you can help. My 18-month-old labrador constantly begs for food when we’re sitting at the table for dinner. He was so adorable as a puppy we probably got into bad habits by letting him get away with it, but now and he’s really persistent. What can we do to stop him?

I’ve come across this problem more than a few times in the past, and often — but not always — it starts in a way which is easy to understand. A couple with a young baby still in its high chair get themselves a puppy, and the baby realises what a wonderful game it is dropping food to the floor and letting the dog eat it. There’s no getting away from it: it’s hilarious and super-cute to watch.

Sadly, it’s no good for the baby — you want them to eat their food, not play with it — and it can be even worse for the dog. If it carries on the dog can become bad-tempered when you try to put a stop to it; I’ve known of dogs who have even become snappy or aggressive to the child if they're not given the food when they demand it. I’ve even seen dogs jumping up and nipping to get food off plates, as if they’re seagulls dive-bombing tourists on Brighton Beach to steal a few chips. It can be aggressive and dangerous if it continues.

On top of that it creates an impatient dog, a potentially spoilt dog, who sits there wanting and insisting. It will also put the dog off their main meal, which is normally a scientifically-designed diet to suit that dog’s nutritional needs. Start adding all types of other food into their diet and you could give the dog upset stomachs, loose stools and possibly provoke allergies, not to mentioned putting them off their standard dog food and make them fussy eaters.

The best cure in this case is prevention — please, if you have a puppy, don’t let the situation develop. But if you do need to put a stop to it, here are the steps to follow.

1. Train your dog to be patient at mealtimes

The best cure in this case is to stop this developing in the first place — please, if you have a puppy, don’t let it happen to you. Train your dogs from the start to have manners and respect at mealtimes. Follow the tips in my article about training your dog to obey the leave command and you can get it right from the start.

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2. Don't be tempted to lock your dog in another room

It's important that you don't just hide the problem away — otherwise what will happen when you're in situation like a picnic when that's not an option? Once your dog has mastered holding off from eating until you give the command at mealtimes, bring him or her into the place where you eat your dinner. We like to sit our dogs in their beds in the kitchen while we eat.

3. Place a treat in front of them while you eat, and have them wait patiently

I put a treat on the floor in front of the dogs but tell them to leave it, then I go and sit up at the table with the family. When we’ve finished our meal, I call each dog individually by name to get its reward for sitting patiently throughout the meal.

4. Give occasional special rewards for good behaviour

On occasions in our house (steak night is a big favourite) our girls are rewarded with a slice of leftover meat if — and only if — their behaviour has been appropriate. That’s a really powerful training tool, and reinforces the manners and patience your dogs need. You and your dog need to be able to enjoy these things with each other around, so it's important to instil those manners at feed times. It’ll shape how they react around humans, food and even other dogs.

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5. Between their meals, give them healthy treats

Our dogs eat twice a day, in the morning and the evening, and if you're feeding them a decent diet that will be fine for them. In terms of treats for my dogs, though, I like to given them a dental stick product after their breakfast or dinner to remove plaque from teeth. But even a treat is never just a treat: as always with BG training it’s used as a tool, a reward for good behaviour.

For more detailed advice about Ben Randall’s positive, reward-based and proven BG training methods, one-to-one training sessions, residential training or five-star dog-boarding at his BGHQ in Herefordshire, telephone 01531 670960 or visit www.ledburylodgekennels.co.uk. For a free seven-day trial of the Gundog app, which costs £24.99 a month or £249.99 a year, visit www.gundog.app/trial.


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Ben Randall is an award-winning dog trainer based in Herefordshire, who uses positive, reward-based training methods to help dogs learn patience, steadiness and drive. Ben has been named Dog trainer of the Year three times (in 2011, 2012 and 2017), and is a Kennel Club-approved A Panel Judge, who made history when winning the British Cocker Championships back-to-back in 2011 and 2012  — the first time the feat had been achieved in nearly 40 years — with Field Trial Champion Heolybwlch Fatty. Irrespective of your dog's breed or whatever behavioural issues you might be facing, as a self-taught dog psychologist, Ben employs only the most up-to-date training methods in order to get the best out of any dog in a short time. Having honed his own highly effective Beggarbush (BG) training foundations for more than 30 years, Ben helps owners to understand how their dogs think, so they can achieve a much better relationship and bond. His aim is for everyone to have a happy dog that will walk to heel, sit, stay and ignore distractions, as well as come back when it's called and be relaxed in the home. Known for his proven, positive and reward-based methods, Ben has trained the dogs of many celebrities, including David Beckham and Gordon Ramsay. Find out more about him and his methods at ledburylodgekennels.co.uk.